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Subject: Why do you want to join an elite military unit (or why did you)?
GOP    2/8/2007 8:08:09 PM
I thought this would be an interesting thread. Why do you want to join an elite military unit (SOF or otherwise, such as EOD/Ranger/10th Mountain/AB/etc)...or why did you? What is/was your motivation, desire, goals, etc? Obviously for the guys who have been there and done that, don't want any names, etc...and for the guys who are currently there, I don't want any names/units/etc...I just want to know why you joined. I want to hear from as many people as I can...because this can help all of us looking to join an elite unit. Well, here's my reason (kind of long and rambling, lol). When I was 6, I first heard about the SEALs; I believe it was a Discovery channel documentary. Basically, they were talking about how the SEALs were blowing things up, kicking in doors, all of the Hollywood stuff. I thought it was awesome because it was just like a giant game of army man. I decided then, at 6, that I was going to be a SEAL (I probably didn't even know how to pronounce it at the time, or what branch it was in, or anything). Well, as I got older, my dream stuck with me. I learned more and more about the military and the SEALs, and how things worked. At age 10, I started reading just about every military book I could...and have continued to do so to this day. My reason for wanting to be a SEAL slowly started to change from "being an army man" to the more mature, realistic reason I want to be a SEAL today: to be a winner, and to be surrounded by other highly motivated winners. I have always had a desire to be the best...always. I mean, I am one of the most competitive people you will meet. I sort of thank my Parent's for that, my Dad in particular. He has always pushed me to be the best, and I have seen how succesful he is because of his work ethic. He's a winner, and I want to be like that. Even to this day (as I am a Junior in HS), if I make below an A, not only do my Parent's interogate me as to why I made a bad grade, but also I feel very guilty...because I didn't succeed. It's just a desire I have to be a winner, to be the best (as cliche and overused as that has become), and to never quit. That is one thing my Dad has taught me...never quit. He went through a bankruptcy (his business partner was stealing from him and went to jail because of it), and now he runs one of the most succusful businesses in our area...he never quits. I can remember as young guy playing city league basketball (I was like 11-12). My team sucked, and we only won one game that year. But I was always trying hard, yelling at me team trying to motivate them, challenging the refs if they made a bad call (lol, I must have looked like the biggest brat), and just trying to find a way to win. Well, the last game of the year, we won. I had basically decided I was going to take over the game, and I sort of did (I was no great talent at all, by the way...I probably wouldn't have started in a bigger city). I had 12 points and 8 rebounds, my best game. We won like 24-20...it was a pitiful game, but we won. Well, Allstars was coming up, and every team was supposed to have a player selected for all-stars (most teams got 2). I was by far the best player on my team (again, I was nothing special, but my team was horrible honestly). I didn't get selected (no one on my team did), because of politics. One team had 3 players selected, but because my Team was so bad, I wasn't selected...it really hurt my feelings, so I stopped playing basketball. It was good for me though, because I found my true love...working out. I've been working out ever since, and while I'm not in great shape, I am better than average. I try really hard anyway. I've learned an extreme amount about working out, and it's awesome. I also started taking MMA about 10 months ago, and it's great...it's really toughened me up. It's taken the whole "never quit" thing to a new level. 3 weeks ago, I went to the weekly sparring session at my gym. We basically spar with someone all out for 1 rounds (3 minutes), then switch partners. Well, after about 10 rounds, I sparred my instructor. He's a pro fighter. He's tough. He destroyed me...he nearly knocked me out 3 times (Thank god for a hard head and strong neck) and I was wobbling everywhere. He also knocked the wind out of me twice. It was embarrasing, as the new guys who were watching the session were basically laughing at the beating...it was the longest 3 minutes of my life, lol. But, I didn't quit fighting, and I laughed every time he landed a good shot. I earned alot of respect from him, and he bragged on me for the first time ever the next day (saying how tough I was and how he couldn't drop me)...he's a former Marine, so it means alot. So basically, I want to be a SEAL because I want to be a winner, and be surrounded by winners; but I have to admit, I also like the idea of serving in a SOF unit, because I like the mission tasks, etc. By the way, my English is probably horrible in this post, sorry...it's not my strong suit. So, if you have mad
 
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colts       2/9/2007 5:34:18 PM
I love this post.  It made me think.  And when I do, I realize that I just really want to serve.  I remember when I was in boy scouts, one of the scout masters was a former marine, he and his kid had Kbars, (the coolest knife ever) and I was just in awe of him.  A real mans man, with his Kbar, and Cigar, I thought he was so cool, ever since then I have wanted to serve.  I too, like GOP have always been a winner, dont get me wrong, I have lost my fair share but that just keeps me on fighting, makes me want more.  Being a winner means having that undaunting will, something that I am trying to get across to my basketball this team.  Anyway getting back to why I want to serve.  The past 4 yrs have been the hardest years of my life.  When I was a sophmore my dad was diagonosed with prostate cancer, (prostate cancer has a 90% survival rate however my dad being the stuborn guy he was did not go to the doctor for 12 yrs, (my parents moved to the country to raise me, to many shooting in our old neighborhood, any way from 1st grade to my sophmore year in high school my dad never went to the doctor, he almost cut his finger off working in the shop, and wanted to super glue it back on, anyway after 5 years of him really not being able to piss my mom talked him into going to hte doctor.  He had had cancer for five years and it was everywhere in his body.  4 yrs later my dad is still alive and kicking the cancers ass) anyway I got real down for a few years, depressed only finding relief in push ups, working out, and lifting, playing basketball.  Anyway while I was down, the only thing that really took the pain away was watching my brother have fun, playing basketball and football.  I remember the day like it was yesterday, when I really found my answer, about a year ago, I was watching him in a game and i was immensly happy, (this might sound kinda korny..) i said then and there that I wanted to serve to keep my brother free, to give him the same, and more opportiunities that I had.  I love that kid to death.  Thats why I want to serve, for my brother, and I have loved the Marines since I was little.  The more and more life goes on though, why I want to be with a more select group is enforced.  I hate losing and I hate it when people dont give it their absolute best.  I go crazy being around unmotivated people.  (have any of you tried working at a chilies, or applebees?  I worked at chillies for as long as I could stand it.  I was 16 busing tables, everyone else was 21, 21, there were even quite a few 40 year olds, dam, anyway all they ever did and talked about was partying, getting drunk and doing drugs. (actually when I had surgery I sold my meds to a laddy that worked there, never like any kind of drugs) anyway that was the least motivated group of people I have ever been around and I hate it.)  I remember my senior year the FB coach finally was able to talk me into playing football, and like basketball I wasnt the most talented but I played my ass off.  The best part of practice was the conditioning, up downs, paratroopers, lunges, we would sprint and have to dive on the ground every time coach blew the whistles then crawl and get up again and sprint on command, then the bear crawls.  It was awesome.  Anyway the team the previous year was 1-9, horrible.  My teammates hated me for the first few weeks, I was infront at every drill, in every sprint, telling them why they lost last year and how to get better.  We lost the first game and that night i went on the practice field and hit the sled untill i couldnt stand, then went home squated and went running for 2 hours.  We finished the season 5-5, best football team in 10 years at my high school.  This is why I want to go into FR, I always do everything i can to do the right thing, which more often than not is working as hard as you can as long as you can, and I love being around like minded people, I want to be around them.  Thats my story.  

I bet we'd get along pretty good GOP.
 
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Drazhar       2/9/2007 5:45:20 PM
I wanted to join the army or even one day join the SAS becuase of A) The love for my country and B) My father, grandfather have all serverd in the military (my dad was in the royal marines and grandad a paratrooper) amazing contrasts I know lol. I too have a desire to be the best hence why I have also wanted to join SAS/SBS.
 
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BadNews       2/9/2007 6:00:38 PM
Family tradition as 5 generations of Marine Green,
Love of Country, instilled in me from birth.
 
As far Elite goes, I always thought of the Corps as Elite, I still do now 33 years later, with age however, I found it is serving that what counts, what is Elite is those who serve
 
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Yimmy       2/9/2007 6:20:45 PM
Er.... does my not wanting to get a real job count as a reason?


 
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BadNews       2/9/2007 6:41:19 PM

Er.... does my not wanting to get a real job count as a reason?




Hell Yes!
 
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GOP       2/9/2007 8:55:22 PM
Awesome story Colt, we seem to have very similar reasons on why to join. Yeah, I think we'd get along great.
 
 
 
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colts       2/9/2007 9:16:00 PM



Er.... does my not wanting to get a real job count as a reason?





Hell Yes!

I agree 100%, I would go crazy if I had to sit at a desk after I graduated all of my school.
 
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GOP       2/9/2007 10:37:05 PM






Er.... does my not wanting to get a real job count as a reason?






Hell Yes!


I agree 100%, I would go crazy if I had to sit at a desk after I graduated all of my school.

I agree aswell. I wouldn't be able to stand a desk job...I love to get out and do things.
 
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